Welcome to the world Presley Ann- 11/28/2010 @ 2:38 a.m.

Presley Ann Hendricks

Born: November 28th 2010 @ 2:38 a.m.

6lbs 150z 20 inches long

Maddie is a big sister! My due date of Thanksgiving day (11/25) came and went, I figured we'd go past the due date and I'd end up being induced. We went ahead and set up and induction for wed 12/1 thinking that would be the day. Well, on Saturday we put up the Christmas tree, I moped the floors, organized the playroom and had not a single sign labor was immanent. Chad went out and got hot wings and we watched the FSU/FL game. FSU won (whoo hoo). We put Maddie to bed about 9:45 and when I finally sat down on the couch to relax for the evening, I had a sharp pain in my belly. I waited and had another soon after. I told Chad I thought maybe my stomach was upset from the wings. I got in the shower just in case we needed to go to the hospital and told chad to time my pains. Once I got out of the shower the pains had become much more painful and I told him to call now! My contractions were about 3-4 mins apart when we left the house at 11:15 pm, by the time we dropped Maddie off at my parents house (10 mins away) they were about 2! I told Chad to HURRY us there because I knew things were happening very fast. When we were about a minute away from the hospital Chad's phone rang and I could hear the nurse tell him my Dr wasnt on call and another would be delivering the baby! I was pretty pissed since it was never discussed she wouldnt be there if I went into labor and I had never met the other Dr. Poor Chad tried to avoid me hearing what she said on the phone but it was too late, my pain level once we got there was pretty bad, we had to go in through the ER and when I walked in while Chad was parking the car there was a room full of people. All of them stopped and were silent it seemed when they saw me walk in and yell for someone to get me up to L and D now! By this time its about midnight. I needed my epidural and I knew I didnt have much time. When we got up there the nurse in the triage room informed us she was the only one
there and they were calling more people in since there were 4 other women who went into labor of my Dr.'s patients. By this point Im really crying and in extreme pain with every contraction, now about one to two mins apart. My mom finally got off work and came to be there with us. I told her I was "dying" and she said she thought I had a ways to go! My nurse came and we got moved to our delivery room and I told her I felt lots of pressure down low, she immediately called for the anesthesiologist and checked me, I was about 8 cm when I got my epidural so i got it just in time. 20 minutes later it was time to push and the baby came out in 5 pushes because I was so numb. She came into the world at 2:38 a.m. I had a mirror placed in front of me so I could watch my little girl be born, when she came out I noticed some brown on her legs, then I heard the Dr say "meconium" and then I realized she was not crying or moving....when Maddie was born the Dr placed her immediately on my chest, this time the baby was quickly grabbed by a neo nurse. I remember it took a few minutes and I must have repeated myself 15 times asking if everything was ok. I finally heard her cry after she was suctioned and her airway was cleared.

My water never broke so they had to take her to the NICU and put an iv in her tiny hand and run some tests to make sure she didnt have an infection of any kind. She weighed in at 6lbs 15oz and 20 inches long. She was so tiny and everyone thought she'd be much bigger. From start to finish my labor was about 4 and a half hours. I got to the hospital at about midnight and delivered Presley 2 and a half hours later. Chad and I joke that if I had started labor during the game I probably would not have made it to the hospital ha! Chad was an awesome coach once again and Presley checked out perfectly great! We did have to stay in the hospital and extra day just to make sure she didnt develop and infection. Maddie met her new baby sister the next morning and immediately gave her kisses. Having that first moment with them was the sweetest thing I have ever experienced. The second night in the hospital was rough, the baby didnt sleep at all, and Chad and I were going on 3 straight days of no sleep. Needless to say a much different situation from when Maddie was born, she was in the NICU and never was awake or cried. I was just thankful to have a healthy newborn, who kept us up all night screaming during the entire hospital stay ;)

Everyone thought she looked like me, she had dark hair all over (which has since fallen out) and darker eyes than Madison. (now are looking like they are going to be blue). She is the sweetest little thing, I cant put her down and want to snuggle her all day, I do have some competition though as big sister likes to get her snuggles too. Maddie is incredible with her..we let her hold the baby in her big chair and she will go sit in it and put her arms out waiting for me to put the baby in her lap. Presley is showered with a hundred wet kisses a day from big sis and she is so tolerant of the level of noise around our house. Her sleeping pattern has improved a little bit at night. Some nights she'll go from 10 to 5am! (at 7 weeks 0ld) She is nursing well, despite some difficulty in the beginning with sever pain. She must be getting fed well because she was 11lbs 2 oz at her five week check up :) We have a big girl, the dr was stunned at her weight gain for a breastfed baby. She definitely has the same cheeks as mommy and daddy :)

Maddie was the first person to meet and hold her new little sister, other than mommy daddy and grandma :) That moment was so sweet and I will never forget how gentle and loving she was with her, it was like she knew just what to do with a baby!

Mommys "do it yourself" newborn photo shoot the day we left the hospital (3 days old)

Maddie and her new baby sister getting ready to leave the hospital.

Only 2 weeks to go!

Mini Chad #2 will be here pretty much any day now, I am due on Thanksgiving day but I feel I will more than likely pass my due date. That's totally fine with me because it gives me more time with Maddie and to get things prepared, like umm packing my hospital bag (procrastination much??)

I have so many mixed feelings about being a mom for the second time, everything from the extreme excitement to sadness and guilt for Maddie losing some of my attention. I know the first year will be difficult but this is what we wanted for our family, I wanted Maddie to have a sibling who would be close in age and be a great companion for her. I cant wait for them to share holidays and summer vacations together. I know in my heart they will be close always.
I also have some other fears of what will be in the next week or two, not too many are rational but non the less on my mind. Here they are in order, #1 being my greatest worry..

#10 That our new little girl will have Down Syndrome

#9 I will not have enough attention to share with my girls equally

#8 Maddie will resent me and the baby in the beginning

#7 Maddie will get sick and the hospital wont let her visit her new baby sister

#6 I wont be able to nurse, I pumped for over a year every ounce of milk Maddie ever had, so this is going to be my first nursing experience

#5 Chad and I are going to argue because of the stress of having 2 children, we rarely do at all now.

#4 That the baby will get sick since she is coming in the heart of cold and flu season

#3 That something will go wrong with collecting the cord blood (we are banking the baby's cord blood)

#2 That our little girl will in fact prove that Maddie's hearing loss is genetic and also be hearing impaired

#1 That I wont get to go home WITH her.

Its easy for everyone to say I'm being a "worry wart" or over dramatic in my fears but until you've walked in our shoes you can't even begin to judge them. We are so blessed to have the chance to be parents again and for our daughter to have a sibling, no matter what the outcome :)

Now on to some fall/Halloween 2010 photos. Enjoy!

Step Up for Down Syndrome Walk 2010

There are simply not enough ways to thank EVERYONE who either donated, walked, or both this year in honor of Maddie. We raised around $6,000 and had nearly 300 friends, family and friends of friends who came out to walk for her. I was overcome with emotion when I saw just how large our group was this year, and we won for biggest team again :) I dont share this often because Im honestly ashamed of how I felt then, but I remember worrying the morning we found out she has Down Syndrome that she wouldnt feel the same love and acceptance that the baby girl we were "supposed" to have would feel. I obviously was beyond wrong. She is loved and cherished by people who have only met her once or even people who have only seen her on video or in photos. I cant wait for her to understand the day and know that all those people were there for her. I regret not getting enough photos of everyone with her, Chad and I were running around crazy trying to say hello and thank everyone who came but it always just goes by way too fast! By the end of the day I could barely walk, being 8 1/2 months pregnant did not make it easy this year ;)
Chad and I stressed a little bit about not having enough pink shirts but everyone was very understanding and with our team growing every year we will keep the same style team shirts so next year hopefully everyone will have one.
Maddies first walk,she was 6 months old and we had about 20 people walk with us. Last year she was 18 months old and we had 140 people on her team and raised around $4,000, so you can see how much the word has spread on what a great day it is! I truly hope everyone enjoyed themselves and left with a positive new view on people and children with Down Syndrome. That is really what it is all about. If I could have anything in the world for my daughter it would be that she never experience ignorance or have people underestimate her...I know that is not reality but at least I know that 300 of our friends and family and so many others who were there will think twice about it.

All about Maddie

She is doing so many new thins since my blog-slacking that I don't even know where to begin! So I'll start with her biggest strength so far which seems to be...are you ready for this??....SPEECH! Never in my wildest dreams the day I hear the Dr tell us she was nearly deaf, would I imagine hearing her talk to us. She is, and its remarkable. She also knows about 75 signs, all her animals, colors, random toys, family members, and a new exciting one is potty! We are currently working on the alphabet, numbers shapes and counting. At the beginning of the summer I started working on using flash cards that have not only the word and photo, but the sign on the back of the card to help me remember too :) She LOVES her flash cards. They are from baby bumble bee and came highly recommended by one of our moms who's daughter is reading and is only about a year older than Maddie. Oh and she also has Down Syndrome! Maddie also does several animal sounds, her favorites are elephant, horse, dog, cow,and duck. :)
Here is a list of the words she is saying, some I may even be forgetting at the moment.
Mama
Dada
Grandpa
Lola (my sisters dog)
Baby
Hat
All done
Blap (nap)
Cat
Fish
Hi
Bye bye
Elmo
Book
Up
Down
Potty (sooo excited about this one)
Eat
Drink
Apple
Bath
Pop
No (sounds more like Oh and she even shakes her head)
Open
Pool

I truly attribute the fact her speech is blossoming to the fact that she knows so many signs, even when I cant understand what word she is trying to say, if she uses the sign with it, there is no question. Today in fact she TOLD me she had potty!! She was signing potty and saying poopy (pp) and sure enough, she had a dirty diaper! I started showing her that sign and saying potty/poopy every time we change her. Our upcoming goal is to get her a potty and begin the potty training process. I have been waiting for her to walk more frequently than crawl.

Chad and I attended a 12 week, 3 hour every Monday night class called the Hannen Program to learn how to better communicate with her, I would say we definitely got a lot out of it because I really had no experience with early childhood education and this class showed me how to effectively help her learn and communicate with a child who's communication might not be typical.

Since she turned two in April she has been doing so much better with keeping her hearing aids on!! Hooray! She will even bring them over to me and gesture to put them on her. I do think she is very aware of how much they help her hear.

She knows many body parts:
Head
Hair
Hand
Ear
Eyes
Nose
Mouth
Hand
Legs
Feet
She will point to each part if you ask her or show her the flash card with a picture of it.

She mimics almost everything we do, which is hilarious.
She will "brush her teeth"
Comb her hair
Kiss on command (she will even come up to Chad or I just to give us a kiss and it HAS to be on the lips :)
Hug
Tell us "no" and "all done"
Wave hello and bye bye
Blow kisses (she does this randomly to me several times a day)
"talk on her phone"
Pretend to text on our iphones
Pick up the remote and point it toward the TV (probably the funniest thing she does)
Hold and rock her baby
Dunk her water basketball
Sit in her chair or table when asked (she always asks "up" to get on the couch and says "down" wen she gets down
Ask us to "open" things
Put her toys in or out/clean up
Says "mama" and "dada" when she sees us both in photos and in rea life
Ask for a drink or to eat
Bring me something she knows she is not supposed to have
Dance to music (she loves her music therapy class!!)
Most recently tell me when she did potty "poopy"


Her favorite songs (which she will prompt you to sing by gesturing the actions)
If you're happy and you know it
Itsy bitsy Spider and after that song will immediately ask for
Wheels on the bus.

Her favorite book is Brown Bear Brown Bear. She knows what animal comes next and she loves to mimic the animal sounds. I credit this book to the beginning of her love for animals. She will ask you to read it by bringing it over and putting it in your hands then signing or saying "book or open" if you don't respond quick enough she will then proceed to lovingly whack you with it until you start reading it :)

She is not so great with her puzzles or matching yet. We work on those things and she will quickly tell me "all done" or throw the pieces and refuse to try, so we stop and try again later. I know she will get it soon :) She can self feed with a spoon and will use a fork if I am sitting right there to supervise, she likes to take a few bites with it and then just hold it and use her other hand to pick up and feed herself if she thinks we aren't looking, sneaky little girl!

She stood up from the middle of the floor and took her first steps the night before Chad's birthday. Even though for the last month now she can stand up and take anywhere from 10 to 15 steps, her main mode of travel is still hands and knees crawling and man oh man is she fast! She can crawl quicker than some toddlers can run! We started seeing an additional PT during the summer and she has worked wonders for Maddie,she would barely weight bare, refused to walk with a walk toy and couldn't even stand up unassisted back in June. I think she has progressed so much in the last 3 months. Her new therapist Ms. Sue discovered she has a head tilt, and that she now hates being upside down, spun around in circles, on her back, swinging and slides. Her vestibular system seems to be very weak which is why her balance and walking are not great yet. Again, I am confident she will be running around with all her buddies soon enough! I have yet to meet a older child with DS who isn't walking :)

I am so incredibly proud of my Maddie, she s so bright. I beam with pride when I see her learn and accomplish her goals. She amazes me everyday by how smart she is, I know she is not doing nearly as many things as a typical two and 1/2 year old but she can communicate, understand and play with her peers just fine :) I fall more in love with her everyday, her loving and sweet disposition are just an added bonus!


Here is a link to the video I made of the last year 12/09 to August of this year to promote her step up walk, showing all she has been up to :)
www.vimeo.com/14369023

Here come the Hendricks'

We have so much to be thankful for this year. Maddie will welcome a new baby sister (mini Chad #2 I like to call her) on or around Thanksgiving day. My actual due date is 11/25/10 which happens to be Thanksgiving! We are so happy and cant wait for Madde to meet her new "be be" as she says. She is going to be such a loving and wonderful big sister.
Chad and I got the 'positve' HPT in late March. It was Saturday night and we were heading to an engagement party for some friends of ours Courney and Kevin and there would be an open bar full of adult beverages in which I wanted to indulge since we had an overnight sitter. Sometime that afternoon I began having the reminesent nausea that I had for 14 weeks of my pregnncey with Maddie. I told Chad we needed to take a test to make sure I wasnt pregnant before the party. I took one, didnt really see the two pink lines clearly so I took the non-dollar store test and once again had Chad and Maddie look first..Chad was so proud when I heard him yelling "Maddie is going to be a big sister". I ofcourse started to cry. Needless to say, I felt so sick at the party and we ended up having to leave early :( This was a very planned baby, we thught with my PCOS diagnosis in September of 09 and all the medication the Dr's put me on that getting pregnant was not in the near future. In January we decided to start 'trying' and I went off all of my meds except for the Metformin, which I had to take until after week 12 of the pregnancy to prevent miscarriage. My OB told us not to get our hopes up since most women with PCOS dont become pregnant within 6 months to a year of their own efforts. I was worried but knew that I had obviously gotten pregnant before so we werent going to stress about it utill need be.
Just like my pregnancy with Maddie, I puked everyday, several times a day for 14 weeks..goodtimes and ten times harder when you have a mixture of 110 degree Florida summer heat, and a 25 pound 2 year old that wasnt walking yet to tote around to daily appointmets and therapy. Non the less we survived and are nausea free for the most part! I have had many ask if we had any sort of prenatal testing done with this pregnancy..the answer is no. No triple screen, quad screen or amnio. Chad for the most part left the decision up to me but we both agree that no matter what we want this baby and feel a prenatal diagnosis of anyting would not change our feelings. I did have my OB refer me to the high risk Dr (differnt one than I saw with Maddie) and I did have an in depth 20 week ultrasound looking for anything of health concern i.e. heat defects, enlarged kidneys ect. I have a 1/100 chance of having another baby with trisomy 21 since I have had a previous baby with it. Still confusig to me since based on my age my chance is 1/1000 and its known that the type of DS maddie has is not inherited. Who knows, stats are weird. Not my best subject in college! So far the baby looks great, and Im even measuring a week ahead according to my last ultrsound at 30 weeks. Chad surprised me with a 3D/4D ultrasound with a video so we got some great pictures of our sweet mini-chad #2.

Time to redeem myself!

Grab This Button Once again you see, I have failed miserably at my commitment to blog regularly. Soooo, I came across this wonderful idea this morning and found it the perfect opportunity to redeem myself in the blogging world. Ironically enough I was laying in bed last night thinking about the blog and how I need to do a better job at keeping it up to date for my family. So here you have it, everyday for the entire month of October I am to blog, (today is Oct 2nd so I already missed one day) even if its not directly about DS. I have tons of new posts to make and I am sure they could easily be more than 31!